My buddy, we could phone her Jill, may be the age that is same. Our company is both pupils, neither of us is just a virgin or completely inexperienced with dealing with the sex that is opposite.
Jill split up with a fairly long term boyfriend about 3ish weeks hence. We have been both buddies, not quite close friends needless to say but we have been pretty near. In the last 4 months we've frequently been spending some time going out alone.
And this is actually the kicker, I REALLY DO n't need up to now this enter or girl into any kind of "boyfriend girlfriend" variety of arrangement. The things I do wish to accomplish is possess some type of casual hook up(s) along with her. I do not genuinely wish to state friends with benefits(Gah, that term is hated by me) but that's pretty near to the thing I are thinking about. We are often alone together, often bored, and often horny as I said before. I really couldn't see this going beyond making away plus some groping/manual stimulation so it is nothing like we'd be getting super anyway that is intimate. We'd also be cool along with it being a single time experience, but just how do we get from sitting here speaking with making away?
Only problems are, (1) just how do i start this? I've never ever been someone to have any type of random hook ups before therefore I really have no idea. (2) let's say she claims no? I would personallyn't be offended if she rejects me personally, hell, I mightn't be offended if she informs me i am gross but i truly wish to avoid harming our friendship therefore the risk of her telling all our shared buddies that I attempted to place the moves on her(gossip does bypass, regrettably ).
Used to do look at this concern plus it had some insights that are good personally i think like my situation is far various sufficient to inquire of my very own concern. Additionally, do not recommend that I get her drunk, I do not run like this.